Reputation - from construction to destruction of one small step

Dating do roughly the same thing, but dating service - a special case of a personal relationship of individual subjects, and reputation can do without the personal relationships. That's what never understood - is partying in the sauna and karaoke business dinners.

My word has given me the opportunity to make trade debts in the aggregate equal to three month my income - I have not been able to pay and I took the products under the floor in order to sell it to the client faster than my competitors might. Supplier trust me. Because I had a word.

Likewise, I had a word for all of your salary debts, and their disorderly during my growth was much. Smaller, but still. He promised, paid, parted amicably.

Reputation - something thin, like a napkin. Dunesh, spit, do not you take and all that is not the same type and color. And you can not recover, only to start again. And again, is not always.

But today we'll talk about something else. How to destroy the reputation of. Why? . To place in the market did not hold. At the same time consider the options for countering.

All the negative feature is that it is very easy to use - people are generally very loyal to negative reviews. After all, reputation is the essence of the set of reviews, the views of individuals. And easier for people to believe bad things to perebdet than nedobdet. Or kopensirovat thus its own inferiority complex, throw the idol from the pedestal to elevate himself. Although you do not really risen, and the other fell, but the look is always alterego Merit categories relative.

1) The negative reviews on blogs, forums and other social networks.

Recently, it is particularly widespread in the LJ - A challenge shall be made, everyone starts to play along, then it turns out that the reality is not quite true, but the train has already left, and the residue was. Indeed, the recall in the primary does not necessarily speak the truth - just to say. Blogs and forums have the primacy of magic, especially if the speakers fairly active and popular people in their communities. Pour a bucket of dirt and quiet to relax - hamsters do the rest for you: Who can resist the temptation of a kick to the body lying.

How to respond:. in no case enter into the debate on the enemy. This will only weaken their position, allowing the attack itself is not the speaker, and his commentators and Sympathy. It is better to take a redoubt, and shoot out of it. If you have a blog - Voice position in it. If you have the ability to control the forum or separate section in it - they expand the discussion. Such a move will have more than one perspective on the situation, and two. And everyone will be able to choose their. Experience has shown that hamsters tend to think better of. T. e. If your point of view stronger, or more precisely, then sooner or later there will be a reverse process - the hamsters will have to attack your opponent on his own territory.

Summary:. War is always compromising on the level of who is more podomnet by a hamster. And try to resist the army of lemmings is useless: they still do not hear voices in the wilderness. Therefore creates confusion in the ranks of the lemmings, and then let the wave is the enemy. And let hamsters knead each other.

2) the influence of Conductors.

It is not necessary to operate their own hands. It's too straightforward and points to you as the enemy. Much more powerful move, it's sink or a competitor's hands, popular influential people in their communities. This job requires a lot of preparation, but the fruit itself justify multiple. It suffices for a long time to invest in their own words, letters, chat, text one or two phrases that cause the desired effect. ' It is not so good ', ' the guy passed much ', ' he's a great guy, but I would put at Vasya ', ' Last year, he does not show good results '. The main thing - not to make such remarks in public places. Over time, negative background pick up speed and it will be enough of a puncture to his former rival supporters drowned.

Of course, it seems that to do such work difficult and time. In fact, time is spent well, but eventually you get used to do things casually, not really something and giving value to his words. Approximately, how to turn off the light, passing by the toilet.

What's wrong with simply express their views fully and immediately? .

How to respond:. in no way. Such a network will only slander in the case of your failure. Try to avoid. In addition, we must constantly work exaggeration of their features in words. When a person is in a great mind, the spray of dirt and stick only to the shoes, not washed with the head. Even as an option, it is necessary to bind the control obligations of persons. What people say is not from the community - you do not care, but if you turn away one of the leaders, will be a serious blow to the reputation of. Therefore, a strong link between you progarantiruet that you will listen more than anyone else. The more links, the smaller the wire is a competitor.

3) Tales.

Tales - a powerful tool in skilled hands. The man who created an empire, but he tries to keep away from the community, it becomes vulnerable. In fact, one can say anything and it will be accepted for the truth, because there is simply no alternative, but the brain is such that he needed something to create an image. And if they say that the rapist and a pedophile, even in the absence of belief in it, the brain is still close to the way put a black mark - and suddenly the truth!.

How to respond:. when there was already too late to react. I would recommend a wire reveal the influence of the information currently. It will sound more truthful than even the most sincere confession of your mouth. It just so happened that prevails in the society the presumption of guilt. Therefore, dose vplesk information would be more correct course. But in fact, better to prevent: be made ​​public, give enough information about yourself BEFORE someone would think to use the dark side of your life.

4) show.

The show may be different, but the most common variant: a powerful friend takes your service, in public it is trying to learn, and then signs in your ignorance and incompetence, and then begins to demand money back. Some do so at your own svolochizma nature, but often it is a planned action to show your inadequacy. Belief in the reality show came to us from the show ' behind glass ' and ' windows ' and is still going on in the House -2 and on dozens of TV shows more compact. How many times have caught the hand in the formulation, but the masses continue to believe. After all, the show unfolds before your eyes. You can even give it a try and see a similar effect. Often, many begin to think like symptoms and raised a second wave of hysteria, erasing your reputation to zero.

How to respond:. initially need to deny such clients. If we are in a heap, it must be possible to record losses and out of order. If the client continues to insist on the provision of services, it is necessary to fix the scope of care. Usually problems occur because of too free interpretation of possibilities: for example, the microscope can hammer and nails, and skill to look at the stars. But it's still a thing for another. Narrowing the spectrum, you force a comrade ordered, and his ridiculous excuses that supposedly still not what we would like, will look not so much as a complete failure of. And trying to push to be considered now as hysteria and not taken seriously.


There are other options to undermine the reputation. But all of them easy to oppose openness and responsiveness. Of course, occur wild cases of aggressive attack - in this case it is better to lie low, let the emotions cool down and the last word in reserve. If you do not burn with the desire to compete in wit, but want to achieve results, fix its position and join the discussion. Only answer directly the questions and the group, not individually. The more sober and colder you behave, the more chance that the opponent makes a mistake. This is your chance to strike back and defend his reputation.

But, of course, if the enemy had prepared, and in all respects you more and more calculating, then take care of you God. Destroy - not build.

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